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Human Being Awakening and Miracle

Very touching story!!! --- Hope their is always miracle everyday. Though this might be coincidence.

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A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet.

She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully.

Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes.

Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.


She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

"And what do you want?" the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages," he said without waiting for a reply to his question.

"Well, I want to talk to you about my brother," Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. "He's really, really sick ... and I want to buy a miracle."

"I beg your pardon?" said the pharmacist.

"His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?"

"We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you," the pharmacist said, softening a little.

"Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs."

The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, "What kind of a miracle does your brother need?"

"I don't know," Tess replied with her eyes welling up. "I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money."

"How much do you have?" asked the man from Chicago .

"One dollar and eleven cents," Tess answered barely audibly.

"And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to."

"Well, what a coincidence," smiled the man. "A dollar and eleven cents - the exact price of a miracle for little brothers."

He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said "Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need."


That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well.

Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.

"That surgery," her Mom whispered. "was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?"


Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost ... one dollar and eleven cents .. plus the faith of a little child.

In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need.

A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law. I know you'll keep the ball moving!

Japanese Prime Minister and President of USA

Just for laugh!!!

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This is a true story from the Japanese Embassy in US..!!!

A few years ago, Prime Minister Mori was given some Basic English conversation training before he visited Washington and met president Bill Clinton...

The instructor told Mori "Prime Minister, when you shake hand with President Clinton, please say 'how are you'. Then Mr. Clinton should say," I'm fine, and you?"

Now you should say ' me too'. Afterwards we, translators, will do all the work for you."It looks quite simple, but the truth is....When Mori met Clinton , he mistakenly said "Who Are You?" instead of "How are you".

Mr. Clinton was a bit shocked but still managed to react with humour: "Well, I'm Hilary's husband, ha-ha...."

Then Mori replied "Me too, ha-ha.."Then there was a long silence in the meeting room....

Carefull!!! Cellphone Hurts!!!

Lovely!!!

Incredible Martial Art Football

Dubai --- Wow!!!

If you have nothing else to spend your money, better spend it like below!!!

Amazing!!!

Incredible Love Story

Very Nice!!!

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An incredible love story has come out of China recently and managed to touch the world. It is a story of a man and an older woman who ran off to live and love each other in peace for over half a century.


The 70-year-old Chinese man who hand-carved over 6,000 stairs up a mountain for his 80-year-old wife has passed away in the cave which has been the couple's home for the last 50 years.Over 50 years ago, Liu Guojiang a 19 year-old boy, fell in love with a 29 year-old widowed mother named Xu Chaoqin..

In a twist worthy of Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, friends and relatives criticized the relationship because of the age difference and the fact that Xu already had children.

At that time, it was unacceptable and immoral for a young man to love an older woman.. To avoid the market gossip and the scorn of their communities, the couple decided to elope and lived in a cave in Jiangjin County in Southern ChongQing Municipality.

In the beginning, life was harsh as hey had nothing, no electricity or even food. They had to eat grass and roots they found in the mountain, and Liu made a kerosene lamp that they used to light up their lives.

Xu felt that she had tied Liu down and repeatedly asked him, 'Are you regretful? Liu always replied, 'As long as we are industrious, life will improve.'

In the second year of living in the mountain, Liu began and continued for over 50 years, to hand-carve the steps so that his wife could get down the mountain easily.

Half a century later in 2001, a group of adventurers were exploring the forest and were surprised to find the elderly couple and the over 6,000 hand-carved steps. Liu MingSheng, one of their seven children said, 'My parents loved each other so much, they have lived in seclusion for over 50 years and never been apart a single day. He hand carved more than 6,000 steps over the years for my mother's convenience, although she doesn't go down the mountain that much.'

The couple had lived in peace for over 50 years until last week. Liu, now 72 years, returned from his daily farm work and collapsed. Xu sat and prayed with her husband as he passed away in her arms. So in love with Xu, was Liu, that no one was able to release the grip he had on his wife's hand even after he had passed away.

'You promised me you'll take care of me, you'll always be with me until the day I died, now you left before me, how am I going to live without you?' Xu spent days softly repeating this sentence and touching her husband's black coffin with tears rolling down her cheeks.

In 2006, their story became one of the top 10 love stories from China , collected by the Chinese Women Weekly. The local government has decided to preserve the love ladder and the place they lived as a museum, so this love story can live forever.

The Chair Move Itself

Just look carefully. For those with weak heart, pls don't watch the movie clip.

Alcohol vs Water

What do you think??? Is it true???

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To my friends who enjoy a glass of beer or wine.. And those who don't..

As Ben Franklin said:

In wine there is wisdom,
in beer there is freedom,
In water there is bacteria.
What About Whisky ??
In whisky there is less stress

In a number of carefully controlled trials, scientists have demonstrated that if we drink 1 liter of water each day, at the end of the year we would have absorbed more than 1 kilo of Escherichia coli (E. Coli bacteria) found in faeces. In other words, we are consuming 1 kilo of of human and animal shit.

However, we do NOT run that risk when drinking wine & beer (or tequila, rum, Whiskey or other liquor) because alcohol has to go through purification process of boiling, filtering and/or fermenting.

Remember: Water = shit, ...........Beer and wine = Health

Therefore, it's better to drink beer and talk stupid, than to drink water and be full of shit.

Goodbye Letter

Lesson learned >>> Get details first before making a decision

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Dear Wife:

I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you forever.
I've been a good man to you for seven years and I have nothing to show
for it. These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell
me that you quit your job today and that was the last straw.

Last week, you came home and didn't even notice that I had a new
haircut, had cooked your favorite meal and even wore a brand new pair of
silk boxers. You ate in two minutes, and went straight to sleep after
watching all of your soaps. You don't tell me you love me anymore; you
don't want sex or anything that connects us as husband and wife. Either
you're cheating on me or you don't love me anymore; whatever the case,
I'm gone.

Your EX-Husband

P.S. Don't try to find me. Your SISTER and I are moving away to West
Virginia together! Have a great life!

Dear Ex-Husband

Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It's true
that you and I have been married for seven years, although a good man
is a far cry from what you've been. I watch my soaps so much because
they drown out your constant whining and griping. Too bad that
doesn't work. I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the
first thing that came to mind was "You look just like a girl!" Since
my mother raised me not to say anything if you can't say something nice,
I didn't comment . And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must
have gotten me confused with MY SISTER, because I stopped eating pork
seven years ago.

About those new silk boxers: I turned away from you because the $49.99
price tag was still on them, and I prayed that it was a coincidence that
my sister had just borrowed fifty dollars from me that morning. After
all of this, I still loved you and felt that we could work it out. So
when I hit the lotto f or ten million dollars, I quit my job and bought
us two tickets to Jamaica . But when I got home you were
gone. Everything happens for a reason, I guess.

I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said
that the letter you wrote ensures you won't get a dime from me. So
take care.

Signed,

Your Ex-Wife, Rich As Hell and Free!

P.S. I don't know if I ever told you this, but my sister Carla was
born Carl.

I hope that's not a problem.

Dropped your Mobile Phone or Ipod in Water

I have not tried this, I dont wish to experience this as well but nevertheless, at least it is worth trying if you are in this situation.

Let me know if it is working? --- For those who experience this!!!

Cool Bar Stools

Are they nuns? Just asking....

Afterall, we are just human beings.

Emirates Airbus 380 Aircraft Interior

See what oil and money can do?

Are this in commercial now? It looks like a combination of an office and hotel room.

I guess it will just be as comfortable and relax as not flying. You will not know your more than 20,000 feet in the air until you look at the window.

Question is, how much the price???

Wow!!!

How to survive a Heart Attack ALONE!!!

Please read below, a friend of mind sent me an email which is very important and I would like to share with you. Share this also to your friends and families because this will definitely save lives.

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Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster.

The stroke victim may suffer brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.

Now doctors say any bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:

• Ask the individual to smile.
• Ask him or her to raise both arms.
• Ask the person to speak a simple sentence.
• If he or she has trouble with any of these tasks, call hospital and request for ambulance immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.
  

After discovering that a group of nonmedical volunteers could identify facial weakness, arm weakness and speech problems, researchers urged the general public to learn the three questions.

They presented their conclusions at the American Stroke Association's annual meeting. Widespread use of this test could result in prompt diagnosis and treatment of the stroke and prevent brain damage.

Heart Attack Self HELP
Let's say it's 6.15 P.M. and you're driving home (alone of course), after an unusually hard day on the job. You're really tired, upset, and frustrated.

Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to radiate out into your arm and up into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the hospital nearest your home. Unfortunately you don't know if you'll be able to make it that far. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.

HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE
Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack, without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness. However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously.

A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest. A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again.

Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital.

Spend quality time with your loved one

Sometimes life can be very interesting or very boring, what is important is you spend the person who you love the most, either in vacation, in spa, in hotel, in park, in beach, or even the picture below,

About Trade Marketing

*** This is just a shorten version of whole trade marketing (I have 8 years of experience). If you like the longer version or have questions, just drop me an email at urinmyroom@gmail.com, and I will be glad to assist you. ***

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Introduction to Trade Marketing

1. Brand Management versus Trade Marketing

Brand Management

a. Emphasis on END CONSUMER

b. Penetration, Awareness, Trial and Repeat Level

Trade Management

a. Emphasis on TRADE CHANNEL

b. Category growth and profitability (Days inventory value, retail service level, etc)

2. The strategic role of "Place" in changing 4Ps of retail trade

Product

a. Competitive Frame

b. Store Brands

c. New Products

d. CM by SBU

Place

a. Size of Retailers

b. I.T.

c. Space Policy

d. ECR

e. Store Format

d. Order Processing

Promo

a. POP Decision

b. Store Loyalty

c. Category Builders

Price

a. Cost Structure

b. Fee-based Entry

3. What is Trade Marketing

A. Aligning sales and marketing altogether.

B. Satisfy the needs and wants of the consumer.

C. To be better the COMPETITION.

D. At all points of interface with our product.

4. Need an wants of Trade Partners

Needs

a. Quality

b. Availability

c. Credit line

Wants

a. Breakthrough Trade Marketing Programs

Now, hope you learn some Introductory Trade Marketing Concepts. If you need the whole concept, you can drop me an email at, urinmyroom@gmail.com.

The Far View of our Planet - EARTH (Very Nice!!!)

We are just lucky that we are part in this 20th Century, what more can technology do on years to come.

This pictures are really beautiful because it seems you are outside earth and watching them above.

Enjoy!!!

Lets LAUGH!!!

Street Vendor : "I am selling gold watch, please buy! If it turns white, white gold! If it stops, stopwatch!"

girlfriend : hu hu hu hu why are we doing this? I am not anymore a virgin and we have sex twice.
boyfriend : What? We had sex only once?!
girlfriend : Why? Are we not going to have sex later!

Couple talking:
wife : honey, can you fix the light outside.
husband : hello!? I am not an electrician?
wife : eh can you just fix the stairs instead.
husband : hello!? I am not a carpenter?
The husband went out, when he came back everything was fix. He asked his wife who fix the place.
wife : It is because a man saw me crying, I told him we have a lot to fix in our house. So he offered to help in exchange either sex or bake him a cake.
husband : So did you bake him a cak?
wife : hello?! I am not a baker?!


ANG MARRIED LIFE.... Their was this chinese man that likes to go to karaoke bar and went home around 5am. Because he is afraid of his wife, he sent a text message, "Don't pay RANSOM. I was able to ESCAPE. I'm going HOME NOW."

Husband: "We always fight. Let us get separatd instead!"
Wife: "Ok, let us divide our children!"
Husband: "Mine is are the good looking and pretty!"
Wife: "Sus! You choice that is not yours!"

Sa harap ng nursery window;
Friend: I think when that kid grow up, I am sure he will be a good driver.
Dad: Why, it is because his hands are big?
Friend: No. Because he looks like your driver!

Husband came home from church, suddenly lifted his wife and carried her.
Wife: Why? Did the Pastor tell you to be romantic like this?
Husband: No! He told me to carry my cross!

Friend: "Wow, you have a beautiful shoes!"
Husband: "Oo. Surprise gift from my friend!"
Friend: "Surprise? What occasion?"
Husband: "Nothing. I just saw that shoes underneath our bed last night!"

Health Advisory: "Beer contains female hormones, and can turn men into women. After 5 pints.... men become talkative, unreasonable, irritable, cry for nothing, and urinate while sitting!"

WIFE: I'm warning you! My husband will be arriving in 1 hour!
HANDSOME VISITOR: I am not doing anything wrong, why?
WIFE: That why! If you have plans, DO IT NOW!!!


WIFE: Surprising! You arrive home early.
HUSBAND: I just follow the instruction from my boss. My boss told me, "GO TO HELL", that is why I went home early.

Wife: Love, I am dying. This is my last day, let's make love.
Husband: Heh! You STOP. I have to wake up early tomorrow, good for you, you are not. HE HE HE HE !!!!

Population polic ies of countries:
China Stop at 1 child.
Singapore : Stop at 2 children
Philippines: STOP AT 4 A.M.!

RUSSIAN: we're 1st in space
USA : we're 1st in the moon
ERAP ESTRADA (Former Philippine President): we'll be the 1st in the sun
USA: you can't go there, you'll burn
ERAP ESTRADA: we're not stupid, we'll go there at NIGHT!

For all the women in you life - IMPORTANT!!!

I receive this email, Is this true??? Nah!!! Nevertheless, prevention is better than regret later on.

LET EVERYONE WHO HAS A WIFE / GIRLFRIEND / DAUGHTER KNOW THIS, PLEASE

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WARNING TO ALL FEMALES - WIVES, DAUGHTERS, GIRLFRIENDS, ETC.

Bottled water in your car can be very dangerous . . .

This was how Sheryl Crow got breast cancer. She was on the Ellen show and said this same exact thing. This has been identified as the most common cause of the high levels in breast cancer, especially in Australia.

A friend whose mother was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. The Doctor told her: women should not drink bottled water that has been left in a car. The doctor said that the heat and the plastic of the bottle have certain chemicals that can lead to breast cancer.

So please be careful and do not drink bottled water that has been left in a car, and, pass this on to all the women in your life. This information is the kind we need to know and be aware and just might save us!!!!

The heat causes toxins from the plastic to leak into the water and they have found these toxins in breast tissue. Use a stainless steel Canteen or a glass bottle when you can!!!

How to choose the person you should marry

When a friend of mine sent me an email about "10 ways to marry the wrong person" (Pls see previous blog below), when I forwarded that email to my other friends, one of that friends replied about "How to choose the person you should marry" authored by Mary Beth Bonacci, which I will share with my you.

Please read below....

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The choice of a marriage partner should not be based on "I get a warm, wonderful feeling whenever we're together and I want to have that warm wonderful feeling forever, so let's go get married".

Feelings, as we have discussed, have no logic on their own. They need to be acknowledged, of course, but they need considerable assistance from your brain. Marriage means choosing the person you will spend the rest of your life with. This, as you may have guessed, is a very long time to spend with one person. This person will live with you, eat meals with you, sleep with you, and go on vacation with you. More important yet, this person will share your children. You need to choose wisely. The decision should not be made based on feelings alone.

You need to ask yourself some tough questions.

The decisions have to be made on solid considerations.

• Will this person be a good partner?
• Is she mature enough to put her ownselfish desires aside to look out for what is best for the family?
• Is he prepared to be a good provider?
• What is his track record?
• Is he responsible enough to get a good job and keep it?
• Will this person be a good parent?
• Can you stand the thought of your children turning out exactly like this person?

They will, you know. Children spend a lot of time with their parents and consequently pick up many or most of their parents' character traits. You had better like your spouse's traits a lot because you will be seeing them again in your children. If something were to happen to you, would you completely trust this person, alone, with the task of raising and forming your children?

This is not a pleasant thought, but it is an important consideration. Not everyone dies at a ripe old age with great grandchildren gathered around the bed. Sometimes a parent dies and leaves young children in the care of the other parent. If you feel that you would need to be around to correct or lessen this person's influence on your children, then you are considering the wrong person.

Does this person share your faith in God?

God does not give us children so that we can mold them into the coolest, most popular people in school. Our job is to get them to heaven. To do that, we need to raise them believing in God and in His Church. It is tough to do that if only one parent believes. Saying "this is right and this is wrong, and I want you to ignore Mommyuntil you are thirty-five" does not work.

Small children ask about eight skillion questions in a single day. The answers to those questions go a long way toward forming the kind of adults they will become. Who will be answering those questions for your children? Does this person you are marrying have sexual self-control?

Single people sometimes have this idea that marriage is just some kind of life long sex festival and that as long as they have each other, they will never be tempted by other people.

Wrong!

There are many times in every marriage when one partner or the other is sexually unavailable. There are also times when spouses, just get on each others' nerves. At times like this, other people can seem very appealing. That can be dangerous, because there are plenty of very attractive people out there who arewilling to make them available to married men and women. Do you want someone who has never said "no" to sex? If he is not good at saying "no" at eighteen, it won't be different at forty.

Do you want to worry about whether or not your spouse is being faithful? What kind of marriage can you have with someone you couldn't trust on a business trip?

These are very important questions, and if you are not comfortable with all of the answers, you should definitely not marry this person. None if this is to say that feelings play no role at all in a marriage decision. You don't have to, "Well, I suppose that you would make a good spouse and parent, so even though I don't particularly like you I guess I'll marry you."

You need to be happy and excited about the prospect of spending your life with someone. Your brain however must acknowledge that this person as a good catch.

Don't listen to your heart alone or your head alone.

Wait until your heart and head agree.

Men and Women

Is it all correct? :))

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1. Test have shown that women rate 3% higher in general intelligence than men, although their brain size is smaller.

2. Women are walking radar detectors, that is why men have difficulty lying to women. Their brains have the ability to integrate and decipher verbal, visual and other signals of body language. Hence, women will always be safe when faking an orgasm.

3. Women wants lots of sex with the men they love, Men just want lots ofsex.

4. When men flirt, they will lower their pitch of voice. Women will raise theirs.

5. Women talk and think aloud while men do them silently. As a result, men think women talk too much and nags.

6. Women talk about their problems as a way of relieving stress. They want to be heard, not fixed by being offered advice and solutions.

7. Speech and words are not a specific brain skill for men. They find it hard to express themselves. That's why they often choose greeting cards with plenty of words inside. That way, there's less space for them to write.

8. Women leave men, not because they are unhappy with what he can provide, but because they are emotionally unfullfilled.

9. Women use an average of 20,000 communication words, sounds, and gestures a day. Men only use about 7,000.

10. If a woman is talking to you al ot, she likes you. But if she's not talking, you're in trouble.

11. Men are more thick skinned than women, literally. Which explains why women have more wrinkles than men. Boys lose their sensitivity to touch by time they reach puberty. So where does all that sensitivity go? It all goes to just one area.

12. If a woman is unhappy in her relationship, she can't concentrate on her work. If a man is unhappy at work, he can't focus on his relationship.

13. Men can only do one thing at a time. When they stop their car to read a street directory, they have to turn down the radio. Women's brain are configured for multi-tasking performance. They can talk to the phone, watchTV and cook at the same time.

14. Most men get a brain hemorrhage after 20 minutes of clothes shopping.

15. When it comes to sex, women need a reason; men need a place.

Measure of Success

By Bugsy Bascon

(Note from urinmyroom : These is a very inspiring article. Short but big in sense)

Work, work, and more WORK! That has been my life these past couple of years. I'm still very young don't get me wrong but sometimes I feel old just because of my drive to succeed in life is eating me.

How does one know when enough is enough?

It's weird and it's hard. When you have grown accustomed to putting too much importance to career over other things, time really flies fast. Slowly, you feel your vibrancy and youthfulness being drained. It is definitely not healthy.

Going back to the question, some find about it too late while others are lucky enough to witness certain events in life that will change there perspective forever.

Death!!!

In one way or the other we have heard about death. We usually hear about old relatives and sickly people dying. But when we hear one of our contemporary slipping away, all of a sudden we are taken aback to think and re-think about life. And this is what happened to me recently. I find myself re-evaluating my years of existence in this world as a person and not as a corporate guy. I realized that all I have been focusing on the past years was a big fluke. I have failed to live my life to the fullest not having spent more quality time with family and friends.

In the final analysis, I was a dead man walking. Sure I was extremely satisfied with my career path but then again, did it make me happy as a person? NO!

It pains me more to even think that I was so caught up in the system that I didn't know anymore why I was so hungry for success. Now, I feel lighter. I still work hard but I guess the main difference is that everything is in moderation. I don't try to kill myself anymore beating the never ending deadlines at work. I am blessed that GOD has opened my eyes to take life more seriously. Life is very precious to miss out on.

Anytime, any minute our life can be taken away. What is important is that at the end of the day we get to say that we were able to fully live. Success is never measured based on the material wealth a person owns or status in the society, but more importantly, the way you have touched the lives of other people.

10 ways to marry the wrong person

A long time ago, a friend of mind sent me an email, maybe she tought that I am still single and wanted to let me know, which I also wanted to share with single, divorce, separated or married ladies and gentlemen.

Kindly read and Thanks to the author below

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With the divorce rate over 50 percent, too many are apparently making a serious mistake in deciding whom to spend the rest of their life with.

To avoid becoming a "statistic," try to internalise these 10 insights.

#1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you're married.

The classic mistake. Never marry potential. The golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married.

As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, "You actually can expect people to change after their married... for the worst!"

So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.

#2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than on character.

Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character keeps it burning. Beware of the "I'm in love" syndrome. "I'm in love" often means, "I'm in lust."

Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person's character?

Here are four character traits to definitely check for:

Humility: Does this person believe that "doing the right thing" is more important than personal comfort?

Do I want to be more like this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?

Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people? How does s/he treat people s/he doesn't have to be nice to? Does s/he do volunteer work? Give charity?

Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he's going to do?

Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable?

Ask yourself: Do I want to be more like this person? Do I want to have a child with this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?

#3. You pick the wrong person because the man doesn't understand what a woman needs most.

Men and women have unique emotional needs, and more often than not, it is the man who just doesn't "get it." Jewish tradition places the onus on the man to understand the emotional needs of a woman and to satisfy them.

The unique need of a woman is to be loved -- to feel that she is the most important person in her husband's life. The husband needs to give her consistent, quality attention.

This is most apparent in Judaism's approach to sexual intimacy. The Torah obligates the husband to meet the sexual needs of his wife. Sexual intimacy is always on the woman's terms. Men are goal-oriented, especially when it comes to this area. As a wise woman once pointed out, "Men have two speeds: on and off." Women are experience-oriented. When a man is able to switch gears and become more experience-oriented, he will discover what makes his wife very happy. When the man forgets about his own needs and focuses on giving his wife pleasure, amazing things happen.

#4. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goals and priorities.

There are three basic ways we connect with another person:

1. chemistry and compatibility

2. share common interests

3. share common life goal

Make sure you share the deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide. After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart. To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're "living for," while you're single -- and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you.

This is the true definition of a "soul mate." A soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.

#5. You choose the wrong person because you get involved sexually too quickly.

Sexual involvement before the commitment of marriage can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues.

Sexual involvement tends to cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions.

It is not necessary to take a "test drive" in order to find out if a couple is sexually compatible. If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to worry about sexual compatibility. Of all the studies done on divorce, sexual incompatibility is never cited as a main reason why people divorce.

#6. You pick the wrong person because you do not have a deeper emotional connection with this person.

To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask: "Do I respect and admire this person?"

This does not mean, "Am I impressed by this person?" We are impressed by a Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they own a Mercedes. You should be impressed by qualities of creativity, loyalty, determination, etc.

Also ask: "Do I trust this person?" This also means, "Is he/she emotionally stable? Do I feel I can rely on him/her?

#7. You pick the wrong person because you choose someone with whom you don't feel emotionally safe.

Ask yourself the following questions:

Do I feel calm, peaceful and relaxed with this person?

Can I fully be myself and express myself with this person?

Does this person make me feel good about myself?

Do you have a really close friend who does make you feel this way?

Make sure the person you marry makes you feel the same way!

Are you afraid of this person in any way? You should not feel you need to monitor what you say because you are afraid of how the other person will view it. If you're afraid to express your feelings and opinions openly, there's a problem with the relationship.

Be on the look out for someone who is always trying to change you.

Another aspect of feeling safe is that you don't feel the other person is trying to control you. Controlling behaviours are a sign of an abusive person. Be on the look out for someone who is always trying to change you.

There's a big difference between "controlling" and "making suggestions." A suggestion is made for your benefit; a control statement is made for their benefit.

#8. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the able.

Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought up for discussion. Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together. Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise. You need to know now, before making a commitment:

Can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you?

Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you. This is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person. If you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be intimate. The two go hand in hand.

#9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape from personal problems and unhappiness.

If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too.

If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. If anything, marriage will exacerbate them.

If you are not happy with yourself and your life, take responsibility to fix it now while you are single. You'll feel better, and your future spouse will thank you.

#10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a triangle.

To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent on someone or something else while trying to develop another relationship.

A person who hasn't separated from his or her parents is the classic example of triangulation. People can also be triangulated with things as well, such as work, drugs, Internet, hobbies, sports or money.

Be careful that you and your partner are free of triangles. The person caught in the triangle cannot be fully emotionally available to you. You will not be their number one priority. And that's no basis for a marriage.

Silent Killer - What you need to know about Nightmares and other Realities

Please let your family, relatives and friends know and send this article to all the people you care about.

It seems only MALES are afflicted with this.

IMPORTANT:

Never go thirsty when going to bed and besure you have plenty of water during your 8-hour rest. It is sudden death in adults which cause them to die while sleeping. Many theories have been put forward as its cause. However, here is an article which sheds somelight to the cause of this malady.

Medical investigators in China , Japan and several Asian countries who performed autopsies on persons who died from "acute hemorrhagic pancreatitis" found out that the majority of them had eaten NOODLES as their supper. This was a startling finding. However, it wasn't the noodles that caused nightmares but DEHYDRATION. Imbibing even with a few drinks of alcohol or just eating noodles immediately before bedtime compound this on an empty stomach will trigger an electrolyte imbalance and other factors that causes a person to dehydrate or lose water.

It is therefore advisable for a person to take several glasses of water before bedtime if he had a few or several alcoholic drinks. Avoid eating noodles before bedtime, but if you can not avoid it, allow at least two hours for the body to digest the noodles before hitting the sack and drink plenty of water.The most important thing is, never go thirsty when going to bed and be sure you have plenty of water during your 8-hour rest.

DRINK WATER ON EMPTY STOMACH. It is popular in Japan today to drink water immediately after waking up every morning. Furthermore, scientific tests have proven its value. We publish below a description of use of water for our readers. For old and serious diseases as well as modern illnesses the water treatment had been found successful by a Japanese medical society as a 100% cure for the following diseases: Headache, body ache, heart system, arthritis, fast heart beat, epilepsy, excess fatness, bronchitis asthma, TB, meningitis, kidney and urine diseases, vomiting, gastritis, diarrhea, piles, diabetes, constipation, all eye diseases, womb, cancer and menstrual disorders, ear nose and throat diseases.

METHOD OF TREATMENT. As you wake up in the morning before brushing teeth, drink 4 x 160ml glasses of water2. Brush and clean the mouth but do not eat or drink anything for 45 minute3. After 45 minutes you may eat and drink as normal. 4. After 15 minutes of breakfast, lunch and dinner do not eat or drink anything for 2 hours5. Those who are old or sick and are unable to drink 4 glasses of water at the beginning may commence by taking little water and gradually increase it to 4 glasses per day. 6. The above method of treatment will cure diseases of the sick and others can enjoy a healthy life.

The following list gives the number of days of treatment required to cure/control/ reduce main diseases:

1. High Blood Pressure (30 days)

2. Gastric (10 days)

3. Diabetes (30 days)

4. Constipation (10 days)

5. Cancer (180 days)

6. TB (90 days)

7. Arthritis patients should follow the above treatment only for 3 days in the 1st week, and from 2nd week onwards – daily. This treatment method has no side effects, however at the commencement of treatment you may have to urinate a few times.

It is better if we continue this and make this procedure as a routine work in our life. Drink Water and Stay healthy and Active.

This makes sense ... The Chinese and Japanese drink hot tea with their meals ..not cold water. Maybe it is time we adopt their drinking habit while eating!!! Nothing to lose, everything to gain...

For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you.It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion.

Once this "sludge" reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

A serious note about heart attacks:

Women should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting.

• Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.
• You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms.
• 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up.
• Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware.

The more we know, the better chance we could survive...


A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this mail sends it to everyone they know, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life.

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Are we in 2008? Wow, I though below I am in 2020.

The place is amazing, just imagine what innovation and technology can do today?

I wish someday I can visit these place.... Perfect to get a better view...

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All in a Day's Work

One finds the most romantic people shopping at home improvement centers.

A boy was helping a couple purchase a new door for their home.

After he asked the man what size door they needed, the stumped husband yelled clear across the store to his wife in HOME SUPPLIES,

"Honey, c'mon over here and see which one of these doors you can fit through."

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